Carrie Anne Comfort Quilts: 05/12/14

5/12/2014

The Bride Side of the Story!!

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I was Friends with Robert Allen Barker 2001 OCT"

I met rob again when i was at my home church Trinity Baptist

to my surprise a handsome guy I had such a major crush on Rob.

back then i was still imature and i had a crasy crush that i always had

butterflies with him! When i thought of him, & when I saw him!

Since I was Nieve i wasn't strong in my own world and My Walk with Christ. I

was still learning day by day and i still am till this day! learning with my walk

with Christ.

My friends and i asked the paster at Trinitychurch at the time if we can start a

singles College carreer class and God provided us a teacher!!"

So as a group Bruce busswell & Joshua and a few other girls were just the

begening of this group! I loved creating events on the weekends for our singles

friends out side of highschool" Our small group grew & grew!

We had so much fun together getting together to know one another and always

hanging out by going to the zoo going to the imax going to musiams!!!

so we got together many times and celebrated our birthdays together, !

way back then 2001 Rob and i had many talks saying he wasnt ready for any

women at all and i was young i didn't understand the hurt and the pain divorse he

went through!!

Then I met my ex through a friend of a friend unfortunatly!

life doesn't turn out the way you plan in your mind,

God has a greater plan!

Jermiah 29:11

for i know the plans i have for you says God to plans to protect you to keep you

from harm but plans to give you hope and a future!!!

So Rob went off on his adventure then i got married to Dan he had two children

from his first wife so i became instent step mom of two"

My ex was verry emotional verbal abuse to me i don't want to get into gory

details makes me sadden again. When I found out he was unfaithful i came to my

paster Rick & asked him for help i stayed with my maraige with my ex for many

years i thought something was wrong after the middle of the first year. Paster

Rick & family & church family walked with me through this step by step.

I really wanted to do what the Lord wants me too so i was heart broken hurt and

burned.

I thought how am i going to get through this!!!

I have to give God the glory for how Jesus has healed my heart and restored my

soul my joy my hopes Dreams.

i have had to take baby steps of what my life was use too.

The Lord has greatly filled my heart with His Joy in me

as i learn to let go let God heal my past hurts.

so when i felt like i surrendured everything to Christ,

just to let it go...... let God take care of the people in the past that has hurt me

Jesus told me let go let ME" take care of them .

One day the Lord spoke to my heart said to me
"carrie do u truly love me and trust me
then you must let me give you the disires of your HEART
PS 37:4

Then a few months latter after I heard his word in my heart,
one day comming home checking my emails

aug 10 was the day Robert Allen Barker sent a note to me
when he said
"helo"!

The Groom Side of the Story!

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I meet Carrie Anne Bake in the year of October 2000. At

trinity church on Sunday. I moved back home do to a divorce.

Left Kansas

behind. Came back to friendlier place with my family. I was in church

every Sunday. Over the first few months I made new friends.

January I had to go back to Kansas for the last time to sign all the

divorce papers and see the her for the last time. I came back to

Coloradoo Single and alone. Started working two jobs. To take up

time and keep my mind off women. I steel then to church and hang

out with the singles group. Carrie wanted to date me. But I was not

interested in see anyone. I just want to be friends and do things

with

the group. When time from work allowed. Carrie start to date me but

I push her away. Not interested she was very upset with me. Then

Dan came into the picture. I didn't like Dan. So I moved on to driving

over the road for two years. For swift trying to forget and just work. I
got tired of driving over the road. An not seeing my friends. I got job

work in town and got home every night. Plus be in church and see

my friends. Every won an then I'd ask the group how Carrie was

doing in her marriage. The news I hear wasn't good but she was

married to Dan. I lost my job then got another one work in the oil

fields. I had to move to Wyoming. River ton nice little town. New start

new faces and hopefully new friends. I worked for two years for

sanjel. I would go home see Bruce Bus well and another in the

singles group. Plus I hear the news on Carrie and her life. Then I

move to Wilson North Dakota. More work and new company

Schlumberger. I started to go back to Colorado and river ton on my

days off. I miss my friends and family so I start to go back to

Colorado. Then Bruce call and had a singles game night group. I'd

spend time with and family. Than one day I just Bruce if he hear

anything about Carrie. He said she was divorced and dating

someone. I looked at an said. I didn't ask for she was seeing

someone. I ask how's was she was doing. You Know she almost

died. So one day was on Face book. I saw Bruce paper. An click it

and Carrie was one of Bruce's friends. So I sent Carrie a massage on

Face book. I just waited to see how she was doing. We start to talk

and text each other. An on my days off we spend time with each

other and the Game night group. Then one night coming back to

work in the oil field. I told Carrie ( I love you). After that we start to

spend more time together and dating and dinners. We talk to each

about marriage & to marry me. We never been more happy with god

and each other. Year engagement. June 7th 2014 Robert barker and

Carrie Ann bake will be husband and wife!!